There are lots of different types of sites for volunteers in
Mexico. Some volunteers are placed in
big cities in very structured office or university environments, while others are in tiny
pueblos working with people in their yards on projects that they design
themselves. I’m kind of in the middle: I’m
in a city that doesn’t qualify as rural, but we have horses walking down the
street and all community news is shared via a car with a loudspeaker on top. I work in an office but it’s a pretty laid back office
without a lot of pomp and circumstance, and I generally have the freedom to create my own
work plan. When I first arrived at site,
Cindy – the other volunteer here – told me how lucky we were to be here as this
was her second site in Mexico and a vast improvement over the first. The more time I spend here, the more I know that's true.
Old church, just outside of town.
More of those ubiquitous horses.
Local landscape.
I had a good feeling during my initial site visit when I saw my boss
wearing Birkenstocks and two male coworkers with visible piercings. I thought “alright! I can break out my
sandals and not worry about hiding my tattoo all the time.” I started off emailing my boss with the title
“Estimado” but he squashed that right away and told me to use the
informal “tu” form with everyone. I
generally try to come and go around the same time every day, but I have a lot
of flexibility and can leave whenever needed to take care of errands or go for
a long lunch or take a full day for the doctor or immigration office in the closest city. In summary: it’s a great
office full of really kind and interesting people. If you're lucky, you will come visit me here
and get to meet these people in person. In the
meantime, allow me to introduce you to my team.
Some of my office mates, lounging during a dancing horse competition.
Enjoying a BBQ at my office with some local community members.
Santiago: Santiago is the
official “boss” in my office and he's wicked smart. He speaks Spanish, English and French, he has the world's smallest handwriting, and a calming energy when he talks to you. He
has been incredibly supportive of any idea I have and is always telling me that
whatever I need, they’re there to help.
He lets me talk to him about everything from my sadness at learning
that another volunteer was going home early to my plans for the weekend. One time we were at lunch and I was talking about
something that I was really interested in and he grabbed my arm and said “There!
There is it is! Your passion – bring that all the time Autumn!”
Santiago with a local community member.
Noe: Noe is one of those
people who brings light into the world with a big, warm personality. He waxes poetically about the importance of
finding emotional ways to connect with the people here, and is always reminding
you that the beer in Mexico is really weak in comparison to European brews, so
drink up! He’s been my best teacher for
learning colloquial and slang words and is passionate about making a
mark. He also helped me move all of my furniture into my house. One day he asked me if I wanted to
be a person in the system or a person of change. No pressure, but there’s only one correct
answer for that question.
Noe - rocking all the best accessories.
Fabricio: Fabricio is a caballero who has the
best laugh ever. Every time I
hear it I smile because he’s a big, tall guy with this great high-pitched
giggle that's a wonderful contrast. He's a great dancer who carries several small black and white photos of his wife in his wallet and
loves horses. He also frequently has new leather goods with the project logo on display, including belts, cell phone holders and signs to carry in parades.
Fabricio - with the most beautiful horse.
Alma: Alma likes things
orderly and clean, which makes her a-ok in my book. She’s also a caretaker: when she heard that I
only had two plates and two bowls, she brought me two more of each. If you need butter, she will buy you the good
stuff in Guadalajara over the weekend. She is an amazing cook and often shares her lunch creations and homemade hummus with us. As the only woman who is actually employed by our project, she
holds her own and keeps things running smoothly, and she’s always ready to help
you with your Spanish (like how to properly pronounce the word "mango").
Alma also has some really awesome, colorful sneakers.
Poli: Poli always flies into
the office rearing to go somewhere in el campo (usually far out in el campo) and
you’re always invited. One time I went
with him and didn’t get to use the bathroom for 7 hours which was just about
more than I could handle, but it was still really fun to watch him connect with
people and share his wealth of knowledge.
A retired teacher, he now works with us on best practices for
sustainable agriculture and leads a lot of community workshops. No matter how tired you are when you get
back, you always return with new knowledge (and frequently with a full belly
thanks to the kindness of people in el campo).
Ing. Poli during a late night workshop.
We also have several consultants working with us for extended periods
of time, and there are nice things I could say about all of them as well. I
can tell you who constantly kicks me under the table, who types really loudly,
who likes to sing ABBA and Linda Ronstadt songs out loud, and what each one of
their phone ringers sounds like. I know all their habits because for 11 months, I shared a conference table as a "desk" with anywhere from one to six of them.
Despite the desk drama, I know how lucky I am to be working with the team in my office. My grandma has said for years that she would love to be a fly on the wall watching me work, which is surely a testament to how much she has needed more activity in her life. The majority of my work life has been spent in front of a computer or engaged in meetings, so I never really saw a lot of appeal in her proposal, but she probably would enjoy being a fly on the wall here.
There
are only two good chairs at the conference table so I used to arrive at the
office extra early every day to make sure I got the chair that the office
bought for me and to claim a good spot at the table (where the front door
or other people weren’t likely to bump into you). I finally put a sticker
on the chair with my name on it, which sounds a little kooky, but I tried
sitting in a hard, plastic chair all day, and it was not conducive to, well,
anything joyful in life. I'm not a confrontational person but if you
take my chair, I will ask for it back. I mean, it does have my name on
it....
My beloved chair - and the only soft chair that doesn't tip over backwards or drop you on the floor (i.e. we need more good chairs).
Our new group desk.
And
then, last week, the unthinkable happened – a new three-pronged desk
arrived! I could not believe I was finally getting my own desk! A few days later I came into the office to
find another coworker sitting in my chair, at “my” desk, even though there was another desk open. And with that, the dream of my own official desk died. I’m trying to look at the
bright side: at least now we have more work space for people and chances are
I won’t have to sit within kicking distance of anyone now (seriously, I got
kicked a lot). I
was contemplating putting my pictures and stuff on my desk to officially claim
it as mine, but one of my fellow volunteers told me that I was already acting a little crazy
putting my name on my chair, so instead I’m just going to talk to my office
about buying at least one more good chair. My morning anxiety would be greatly reduced if I at least knew I would not have to either ask someone to leave my chair or find myself sitting in a plastic chair all day.
Despite the desk drama, I know how lucky I am to be working with the team in my office. My grandma has said for years that she would love to be a fly on the wall watching me work, which is surely a testament to how much she has needed more activity in her life. The majority of my work life has been spent in front of a computer or engaged in meetings, so I never really saw a lot of appeal in her proposal, but she probably would enjoy being a fly on the wall here.
Santiago!!!!! also that sticker
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